In Negotiations, Can Silence Be Golden?
When it comes to negotiating the best deal possible most people consider words to be king. If you make an offer there has to be a justification. If you refuse the offer, you immediately have to make a counter-proposal, and justify it. You tout the benefits of your product, justify your asking price, and critique the other side’s position; a few well-placed matter-of-fact observations, should do the trick. What most people do not realize, though, is that sometimes certain things, at certain times, are best left unsaid. Sometimes, silence is golden.
Standard negotiating advice to someone making an opening offer is to justify it. If there is something special about the item you are trying to sell, then say it. If there is something below-par about the product or service that you are trying to buy, then mention it. After all, you will be taken more seriously, and your position given more credence, because you have a reason for your offer. This advice is based, in large part, on the 1978 “Copier Machine Study,” by Ellen Langer, Arthur Blank, and Benzion Chanowith. In that study, a person waiting to make copies was more likely to let someone cut in front of him to make a small number of copies if the person offered some justification.
Katherine Shonk, Editor of Negotiation, the monthly newsletter of Harvard Law Schools’ Program on Negotiation, in an article that first appeared in October, 2011, points out that sometimes it may be wise to not justify an offer, at least not at first. She points out that the “Copy Machine Study” may have more to do with the trivial nature of the request, “Can I make 5 copies?” than with the justification offered for it.
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How to succeed in negotiations is open to debate. It depends in large part on what you mean by success. Business owners, in New York and elsewhere, often think it means they have to win, and their negotiating partner, who they often view as their opponent, has to lose. Hardball, to them, is the key; power is what counts. Most business owners want to gain the upper-hand, and, once they have it, use it for all it’s worth. Lawyers often act in this same way, especially once litigation begins. The take-no-prisoners approach may be tempting, and it certainly does look good in the movies, but it often doesn’t get you what you bargained for.
Negotiations are an important part of everyday existence for all businesses, whether big, medium, or small, whether they are located in New York, around the country, or anywhere in the world. Every time businesses buy and sell goods and services, they negotiate. Business owners want to buy low and sell high. They want to break into a market either by undercutting their competition or by charging a premium for their product to convince buyers of its superior quality. Business negotiations impact the lives of everyday people, too. Everyone knows what a Kindle is, what an iPad is, and what e-books are. Many either have, or know someone who has, at least one of them. In the last few years it’s become common for people to walk around with their nose in their tablet, either reading an e-book or surfing the web. Business negotiations played a big part in making this happen.